Archive for the ‘Motivation’ Category

MAKING IT WORK (PART 2)

Wednesday, April 21st, 2010

MAKING IT WORK (PART 2)

Last week I started my article on how to make exercise and eating healthy work when we are so busy.  In the article, I wrote about being creative and thinking differently.  For example, yesterday I was very busy at my office and knew I would not make it to the gym and would not want to do it at home.  I have 12 pound weights at my office and used them for about 20 minutes.   You can pick up weights pretty cheaply in the store or bands are great too.  Keep this equipment at work and then USE THEM!!!

As for food.  There are several things that make you drive up to the fast food window and order. 

1.      Convenience

2.     Quickness (your hungry NOW!!)

3.     Cheap

4.     Habit

Convenience:  cuz you did not take or make the extra time at home to prepare your food and take it with you.

Quickness:  cuz now you are sooooo hungry you need something quick!  Something fast!!  Or you just know for sure you will pass out!!

Cheap:  cuz it’s a two for the price of one Friday special!  And, you can supersize it for just pennies more!

Habit: cuz it’s what you always do!

If you would have just gotten up a little earlier, you would have conveniently had the food in your purse or bag, and you could have popped it in your mouth with quickness which then you would not have had to dig in your wallet keeping lunch cheap today while creating a new and healthy habit.

 

Laurie Jones offering in home personal fitness training

Lauriesimplefit.

COUPLES WORKOUTS

Thursday, April 1st, 2010

Have you ever tried a couple’s workout?

 

Some time ago, I wrote an article based around the scenario of a young woman who has had a child and she has trouble losing her weight.  She does not like that she is out of shape and has become angry with herself and is convinced that her man is no longer interested in her.  She’s grumpy, so he’s grumpy.  There is a better way for the both of you.  Instead of being grumpy at each other, start getting in shape together!  Doing an active sport together is fun and it can bring the both of you closer.  Most of you have jobs.  You come home from work and most likely start more work at home.  Let it go, and go play together.  Now, what to do?  Your plan is to get fit together, so it has got to be something physical enough to bring up your heart rate.  You want to come up with something that the both of you will enjoy.  There is bike riding with the right warm gear, walking, Racquetball, tennis, basketball, you know, sports like stuff.  There is also the gym.  Weight lifting together is very enjoyable.  You can challenge each other and push each other harder towards your goals.  Doing cardio together is also fun.  You can sit next to each other and talk and play games on the equipment to challenge each other.   You can become very close doing active things together, and when one of you becomes lazy and just does not feel like working out, the other one can be the encourager.   

You can help each other with changing the way you eat.  Now, this is a complaint that I hear from the ladies.  They say that their guys are not backing them.  For example, he gets the munchies late at night and wants to go get a burger.  He wants her company, so she goes.  She smells the food and naturally, she becomes hungry and eats a bunch of fries!  Or, he is sitting around watching TV. and wants her to make him up a batch of brownies.  She may say “no” but now the brownies are on her mind.  She can’t get them off of her mind, and her mouth starts to water.  That’s it!  She’s in the kitchen baking, then eating, then gets mad at herself for blowing it, and then mad at him for suggesting it!  You can support each other in this area by doing it hand in hand.  For a reward, you can give yourselves a day off together, and go to dinner. and lunch…and breakfast!

You are joined together as a couple.  Get in shape as a couple.  It is fun and it SHOULD bring the both of you closer.  (remember, I said should!)

 

Laurie Jones offering in home personal training

Lauriesimplyfit.com

 

NEW YEARS!!

Wednesday, January 6th, 2010

It’s the New Year (happy new years!).  You are determined you are going to start living a healthy lifestyle by changing your diet and exercise.  You’re going great!  You are so strong!  But then, uh-0… a bump happens.  Maybe you went out to dinner and ate 3 baskets of chips and salsa. (I just busted myself out!) Maybe in the market, you saw a bag of your favorite chips which you could not resist.  You bought it, took it home and ate the whole bag and went back to the store for more.  How do you feel about yourself?  Like you failed.  So, you start again and are doing great for 2 to 3 days, and then you sit down in front of T.V. and here comes a commercial advertising your favorite ice cream.  All you do for the next hour is crave it.  It over comes you, and your back at the store buying a gallon of it.  You eat it, and once again, you feel failure.  Finally you come to the conclusion that why even try?  You start off great, but then temptation comes along, you give into it, and then you feel worse about yourself cuz you failed again.  So, you dump the whole “living healthy lifestyle” cuz to tell the truth, at least you will not have to go through the pain of failing again. 

If you think about it, we deal with failure in many parts of our lives.  With our work, families, friends, finances.  It seems like all of life is a swim upstream.  However, swimming upstream builds muscle.  So, what is the correct way to deal with so called failures?  View them not as failing, but as a little fall.  When a baby is learning to walk, he falls over and over again.  He doesn’t just lay there and say to him (however babies talk to themselves) “I fell down again!  I will never walk.  I mide as well just lay here cuz it’s  hopeless!”  If that’s the way babies think, all of us would still be laying on the ground! 

Changing from an unhealthy lifestyle to a healthy one is going to be the same thing.  You will fall.  Get back up.  Fall.  Get back up.  Keep getting back up.  Pretty soon, you will not fall as much.  Then, you will be running and hardly falling at all.  Never give up.  At the end of the race you will be proud and see that, yes!  You indeed DID conquer!

Laurie Jones offering in home personal training

Lauriesimplyfit.com     530-370-8228

Not getting results???

Wednesday, October 28th, 2009

                             NOT GETTING RESULTS????

 

Do you feel that you are working out hard and sacrificing in your diet and not getting the results that you want? 

I just started training two ladies the other day.  They currently had been walking on the dam together and had pretty good results for awhile.  The results came because before they had been inactive.  So, even a little bit of activity provide results…up to a point.  They both had become frustrated cuz they were stuck at their current weight and their progress had stopped.  The temptation to quit then comes into play cuz they (and all of us) start thinking “Why should I continue this sacrifice when I am no longer seeing results?”  And then the disaster of that thinking sends us back to previous habits and we pack the weight back on thus canceling all the hard work and sacrifice we made previously. 

So, as partners, they hired me.  During their first workout it became very clear to them why they were not getting results on their own.  When working with clients, I believe in short, intense workouts.  By the time we were finished with our hour together, they were sweating, beat, but convinced.  They recognized they were not pushing themselves and why they were stuck where they were. 

Is personal training expensive?  It depends on how serious you are.  Are intense work-outs hard?  It depends on how badly you want results.  By hiring a GOOD trainer, you should be able to get to your goals in half the time it would take you to be on your own. 

My girls have not stopped their walks on the dam.  However, they are incorporating what I am teaching them into their work outs now.  If they continue, they will be very satisfied in half the time and will always want to keep it part of their lives. 

 

Laurie Jones offering in home personal training

Lauriesimplyfit.com   370-8228

FITNESS TIPS

Tuesday, September 29th, 2009

 

                                                FITNESS TIPS

 

While trying to stay on a lifestyle of fitness, it is always good to have some tips to remember and help us through the process since it is so very easy to slip.  Not that little slips are bad, but they can lead to landslide falls if we don’t watch it!  So, here are some practical tips that will help you keep on track.

#1.  Place your food on pretty dishes.  Since you are trying to eat healthy, it is more enjoyable this way instead of eating on a paper plate.  Prepare foods elegantly, and try different recipes.

#2.  No food is off limits.  Use portion control.  For quick weight loss, eat half of what you normally would, and then eat the other half in a couple of hours.

#3.  Drink a glass of water before eating.

#4.  Treat yourself after a successful week with something special such as a facial, manicure, new dress, ect.  Try not to use food as a reward. (And never teach this to your children).

#5.  If you over indulge one day, under indulge for the next 2 days.  Cut those calories back.

#6.  Light candles, play relaxful music, and read fitness magazines. 

#7.  Buy a cute item of clothing in the size you wish to be in.  Try it on once a week.

#8.  Change up your exercise routine to avoid boredom.

#9.  Spend time in the health food and produce sections in the grocery store and try something new. 

#10.  If you think you need to give up one of your favorite foods, but you keep failing, don’t give it up.  Cut your portion, then try to skip one day without it.  Pretty soon it will become a habit. 

Ok, there’s 10 tips and I have plenty more but no more room to write!  And you readers can e-mail me on my website with your special tips and I will share them in upcoming articles!

 

Laurie Jones

Offering in home personal fitness training

Lauriesimplyfit.com    370-8228

It’s like brushing your teeth!

Friday, June 5th, 2009

Exercise has to be viewed like brushing your teeth.  It is something you may not feel like doing, but if you don’t, your teeth will turn green.  If you do not exercise your muscles, they will turn blubbery.  Now I know none of us want green teeth.  So why are we settling for blubbery muscles?  And, even if you are so called “thin”, grab a hold of your bicep and feel.  Is it tight or….blubbery??

It really does not take a whole lot of work to get the muscle hard again.  You do not have to spend hours lifting weights like the body builders to get results.  All it takes is consistency, like brushing your teeth.  You can obtain good results with exercise 3 to 4 days a week.  See?  That’s less time brushing your teeth where most of us do that job 2-3 times a day!  (And, it’s quite boring)  I know, if we measure by time, brushing our teeth has no comparison to the time it takes to exercise.  Never the less, you get the point. 

And the pay off?  Well, you could put on your tank top that you have stuffed away in the bottom of your drawer and go work in the yard and feel good about yourself again.  You could flex your new in shape muscles for the neighbors and they could say “George!  You’re looking good!  Have you been working out?”  And you would say “by golly Henry!  I took that little fitness trainer’s advice and started doing dumbbell curls with my milk gallon!”  You may gain yourself a new training buddy!  It could spread through the whole neighborhood.  Not only are you getting in shape, but making new friends.  Who knows what new worlds will open up to you!  The possibility is endless, just because you determined you are getting back into shape!  Now all that should excite you enough to get moving!

Laurie Jones

In home personal fitness training

Website: lauriesimplyfit.com

Motivation

Thursday, May 28th, 2009

We are now in the month of April.  Many of you had started New Years resolutions of losing pounds and getting back into shape.  You may have started off strong but are starting to slack.  If this is happening do you know the reason why?  Finding out why will help you identify your problem so that you can fix it.  You may be experiencing:

BOREDOM.  Ho-Hum.  Off to exercise again.  If you are experiencing boredom, I suspect you are not getting results quick enough.  If you are not getting results quick enough, then I suspect:

CHEATING!!!  Too many “oh, it’s just a little cookie” here and “it’s just a basket of chips” there until it’s “only ½ gallon ice cream.  After all, it was my birthday!”

Exercise and diet are joined together and you cannot separate them if you want the best results.  Yes, you will get results with diet or exercise alone but it will not be the best way, and that is what we are looking for.  You certainly will lose weight cutting calories without exercise.  But don’t you think it would be nicer to be able to take in more calories without getting fat?  In order to do this you must raise your metabolism by building muscle.  In order to build muscle you must exercise.  Oh, come on!  It’s not that bad.  Sitting around and doing nothing is what is bad for you.  That is what causes a lot of our aches and pains.  God gave us a body to use for the purpose of work and play.  If you don’t use your muscles, they turn to mush.  They atrophy..shrink down.  If you let that happen you better plan on giving up a lot of calories because your body simply no longer needs those extra calories.  If you choose not to give up those extra calories then they will store inside of you and you will get fatter and fatter.  Then you will get more aches and pains and then you will turn into a grump!

Exercise does not have to be boring and can be made fun and challenging.  I have been doing this a long time and have learned how to make it this way.  When exercise is approached with the mind set of “Here I am again.  Can’t wait for this to be over!” you can pretty much count on failure.   Getting into shape is something that you have to have a plan for.  Know your weaknesses and have a battle plan ready.  Example:  if you know you start having cravings for sugar at a certain part of the day, have something ready that is sweet and not full of calories.  Then CHOOSE that food item and not the item that you know is causing you problems.  Do this daily and in a few days you will have developed a new habit.  If you know that you cannot keep yourself motivated, then hire a trainer (that’s my job!) and let her keep you motivated!  It’s hard to call up your trainer with an excuse not to exercise cuz she knows what you’re thinking and she will find a way!  After canceling a few times and your trainer showing up at 10 at night or 4 in the morning to train with you, soon you will give up the excuses!  Knowing yourself and knowing that you will not continue a health program without someone to help you is wisdom, not weakness. 

 

Laurie Jones

Offering in home personal and group training

simplyfit@cncnet.com

370-8228