We all have habits or addictions that we pull around. How many times have we said to ourselves “That’s it! I’m done with this or that, and I’m quitting….tomorrow” just to have tomorrow come along and we repeat the action.
We realize at that moment we are a slave to whatever it is that we want to quit. There are so many habits or addictions…eating, smoking, drinking, drugs, biting our nails, negativity, spending money…the list goes on and on. We want to quit cuz we realize these little things are pulling us down.
Every night I enjoyed having a glass of wine. No harm in that, right? However, I noticed that every morning it seemed to take me awhile to really wake up and be clear minded. There is no way it could be the wine. After all, it was only one (rather large) glass! So, I decided to experiment and skipped my normal glass of wine. The next morning I woke up and what do you know. I was clear minded and felt really good. Hmmmm.
To break habits or addictions takes small little changes. Instead of my glass of wine, I replaced it with ice water with lime. (I guess I really just wanted something a little fancy.) How many times do we eat when we are not hungry? Replace it by doing something creative, or read a book. How about negativity? Replace every negative thought with a positive one. I was raised with negativity. My parents had me pretty much paranoid about people and situations. I was about 20 and had just become a Christian and still my mind struggled with negativity. I had a very close friend who was raised in a Christian home tell me “Every time you are worried about something, count your blessings”. I took his advice, and within 1 week of replacing worried thoughts with thankful thoughts, my mind started to change.
If you REALLY want to change something in your life, start making little subtle changes. The little changes will pay off in great big dividends!
Laurie J. Souza
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